剧情介绍
迪来自越南北部，一个雾气笼罩的山区。她今年12岁，是一个苗族女孩。在这个少数民族里，女孩在很小的时候就会结婚。结婚前通常会有一个饱受争议的"抢婚"风俗，即女孩在新年前夕被她未来的丈夫“抢走“，随后两家人之间再进行协商。
迪的姐姐和她们的母亲也不例外，因此在婚前准备时，妇女和女孩们大方地谈论性和婚姻生活的情景并不特殊。与此同时，迪也在上学，在学校里她接触到了全然不同的价值观，甚至迪的母亲也以她自己的方式，试图告诫她的女儿关于童婚的问题。
在这里，孩子们既受到传统文化影响，同时也与外部世界相联系，导演阎夏乐在影片里娓娓道来这里的悠久习俗与现代价值观之间的冲突。作为她的第一部纪录长片，影片聚焦一位苗族少女所面临的挑战，但最重要的是，这是一部关于一位坚强的青少年，而不仅仅是一个受害者的动人影片。 DI is a 13-year-old girl living in a village lost in the mist of North Vietnamese mountains. She is fortunate in that she is part of the first generation of kids whom have the opportunity to have access to education, but she must convince her parents that studying is not a waste of time and money. If she can't achieve this challenge, she would be trapped in the village her entire life, \"just like a frog in a well\". DI belongs to the Hmong ethnic minority, where traditionally women get married very young, some of them from the early age of 12. In this society, marriage is linked to a very particular and controversial tradition: the \"bride-kidnapping\". When a boy is interested in a girl, he organizes her kidnapping before forcing her back to his own home. In some occasions this process turns pretty dangerous and dark. When DI enters puberty, her personality has changed drastically: the carefree little girl has turned into an impetuous, hypersensitive teenager. She often has arguments with her mother who is trying to forbid her to have reckless relationships. Her mother worries that her daughter could be harmed or mistreated and won't have enough maturity to handle the situation. On the Lunar New Year's Eve, when DI's parents come back home after celebrating, the house is silent and empty: DI has disappeared. Her mother broke in tears realising that her daughter had been kidnapped: this may signify the end of DI's childhood and the beginning of her life as a woman.
迪的姐姐和她们的母亲也不例外，因此在婚前准备时，妇女和女孩们大方地谈论性和婚姻生活的情景并不特殊。与此同时，迪也在上学，在学校里她接触到了全然不同的价值观，甚至迪的母亲也以她自己的方式，试图告诫她的女儿关于童婚的问题。
在这里，孩子们既受到传统文化影响，同时也与外部世界相联系，导演阎夏乐在影片里娓娓道来这里的悠久习俗与现代价值观之间的冲突。作为她的第一部纪录长片，影片聚焦一位苗族少女所面临的挑战，但最重要的是，这是一部关于一位坚强的青少年，而不仅仅是一个受害者的动人影片。 DI is a 13-year-old girl living in a village lost in the mist of North Vietnamese mountains. She is fortunate in that she is part of the first generation of kids whom have the opportunity to have access to education, but she must convince her parents that studying is not a waste of time and money. If she can't achieve this challenge, she would be trapped in the village her entire life, \"just like a frog in a well\". DI belongs to the Hmong ethnic minority, where traditionally women get married very young, some of them from the early age of 12. In this society, marriage is linked to a very particular and controversial tradition: the \"bride-kidnapping\". When a boy is interested in a girl, he organizes her kidnapping before forcing her back to his own home. In some occasions this process turns pretty dangerous and dark. When DI enters puberty, her personality has changed drastically: the carefree little girl has turned into an impetuous, hypersensitive teenager. She often has arguments with her mother who is trying to forbid her to have reckless relationships. Her mother worries that her daughter could be harmed or mistreated and won't have enough maturity to handle the situation. On the Lunar New Year's Eve, when DI's parents come back home after celebrating, the house is silent and empty: DI has disappeared. Her mother broke in tears realising that her daughter had been kidnapped: this may signify the end of DI's childhood and the beginning of her life as a woman.
血压拉满了！！！如鲠在喉！！！感谢还有纪录片
抢亲是吧，传统习俗是吧，太拉了
你不知道，不代表它不存在，也不代表它合理。对男权社会，对所有弱者受到的一切不公平待遇的厌恶感涌上心头。可怕的事坦然发生，愚蒙的心始终沉睡。
绑架是女性所受暴力最具象化的呈现。而那段野蛮的拖行将这种暴力推向了极致。 / “你把那当游戏，结果掉进可怕的陷阱。” / 若隐若现、时隐时现的迷雾很有感觉
我只想拿收割稻穗的镰刀把这些人的头都砍下来。第一个先砍迪的牲畜父亲。“我好想再当小孩子”，她也才14岁。
越北、滇南山区交通不便，地方文化已经延续发展了数百年，自身存在其合理性。这部片子告诉我们现代社会中，学校的重要性，网络的重要性，还有无人知晓的纪录片的重要性。只是几十年以前，那里什么都没有；只是在世界上的其他地方，那里什么都没有。
😭😢
观看的过程中数度长叹...唉，看着短评里女主后续的结局之后，再次长叹。她真的只是个孩子，无力去反抗这可怕的传统。
8.1看到差点被绑走那段挺揪心，更关心她的未来，我们这里也有类似这样的生活状态
理所当然的“习俗”
很遗憾这里的女性还需要更长的时间走出这团迷雾…
看哭了
抢新娘 14岁；躲学校；最后一幕校服 和化了妆 不知道是不是妥协了
太痛心了
名字很恰当，这个贫穷落后的村子总是蒙在白茫茫的雾里。说实话，简没问题，那个男孩也很有礼貌，即使不读书了，说话也比较温和，反而是女主角，把传统习俗当儿戏，但是反悔了婚约男方确实不能强制带走，毕竟女性不是商品，不是货物，要完全尊重女性的意愿。