剧情介绍
晓恩（张曼玉 饰）留学归来参加妹妹的婚礼，期间发觉与母亲葵子（陆小芬 饰）的隔阂与矛盾只增不减。直到陪母亲回日本探亲时，她才真正开始了解自己的母亲。原来在抗日期间到满洲投靠哥哥的母亲，结识了当时身为军官的父亲（李子雄 饰），并与其结婚，战后决定随丈夫一起搬到澳门生活。因 生活习惯和文化等各方面的差异，令母亲与公婆同女儿之间的隔阂与误解不断。然而在母女俩终于取得了沟通与谅解之时，却从大陆传来了从小带大晓恩的祖父中风不良于行的消息, 向来和他们不和的母亲却要求忙拍戏的女儿一定要去......
After the Sino-Japanese War, Kwei Dz, one of the family members of Japanese soldiers accepted a Chinese officer's proposal and remained in China. Later they had a daughter named Ann. The officer went to Hong Kong to work, leaving Kwei Dz and Ann in Macao. Kwei Dz, unable to communicate with her in-laws, much less accept their ways, became remorseful. Yet the worst problem she had was that Ann did not accept her as a mother. After Ann got a Master Degree in UK she went back to Hong Kong. Kwei Dz had been feeling very homesick for her mother country and decided to take Ann and return to Japan. In Japan, Ann began to understand her mother's pain because she did not understand Japan or the Japanese. Later a telegram from Canton arrived saying that Ann's grandfather had had a stroke. Upon seeing her to grandfather, Ann realized that, in spite of his now frail body, a body once tortured by Red Guards, he was so hopeful for China's future. Ann saw that China was now trying to find its own way in the midst of its self-inflicted turmoil.
补标，非常喜欢，有空重看。
好看的，不管走到哪里，都忘不了的乡土情…
重温经典，当年被白驹荣的南音打动。今天则被剧情感动到落泪。
感觉母亲才是主角，其实核心是两代女人在寻乡途中如何达成和解，国仇家恨只是点缀
家庭观影...说人性，说家国，说文革，说观念，说远离，说分别...
这孩子连奶奶都敢咬 你要相信中国 不要对中国失望 红卫兵最亲的最远 最远的最亲
所叙皆小事而立意深远，台词多洗练而回味无穷
喜欢电影的氛围
乡愁与寻根，故乡与异国，历史与现实交织。
命运好神奇，不生在那个动荡的年代，母亲没有年少的冲动就不会有父母的一场情，缺一不可，满满遗憾又无奈的半生最后也只留下一句，想要回家煲汤喝。人的一生都在与命运和解，最终也会有惊喜。许鞍华的童年时光与我极其相似，与母亲的关系极其相似，而我也和电影中的她一样，在成人后慢慢理解了母亲的不易和寡言。
原来我看过好多部许鞍华电影。看着就很台湾很日本，看编剧是吴念真，哈哈哈。最后去看爷爷，那些邻居的眼神神了！
互相谅解
不要对中国失望。
许鞍华的自传体作品，大时代背景（四十年代中、七十年代初）下的生活颠簸，母女俩的冲突与和解，情绪逐渐的从前面的爆发过渡到后来的平和，而一切又在无言之中，
许鞍华是细腻的，慢慢讲故事。只是我理解不足，还得再三细读。慌忙中看完了一部