剧情介绍
影片讲述患难与共的两个家庭因为一场有隐情的意外被迫疏远，他们在时代洪流下历尽伤痛与不安，人生起伏跌宕，最终选择面对真相，坦荡向前的故事。
年轻的刘耀军和沈英明两家人本是挚友，两家儿子沈浩和刘星在郊外嬉戏中，耀军的儿子刘星意外身亡，此事彻底改变了两家人的命运。刘家夫妇远赴南方。多年后，容颜已老的他们再次相聚，隐藏的真相终将因为年轻一代人的坦荡而揭开。岁月流逝，生命滚滚向前…… 'We're waiting to grow old'. This sentence briefly sums up Yaoyun and his wife Liyun's bitter realization about their lives. They were once a happy family - until their son drowned playing by a reservoir. And so Yaojun and Liyun leave their home and plunge into the big city, although nobody knows them there and they cannot even understand the local dialect. Their adopted son Liu Xing does not offer them the comfort they had hoped for either. Defiantly rejecting his 'foreign' parents, he one day disappears altogether. The married couple are repeatedly enmeshed in their memories. Finally, they decide to return to the site of their lost hopes. In this family saga spanning three decades of Chinese history, the private and the political merge and the individual gets caught up in the gears of a society in the throes of constant change. Part melodrama, part critique of the times, this film takes us from the country's upheaval in the 1980s following the Cultural Revolution to the prospering ...
年轻的刘耀军和沈英明两家人本是挚友，两家儿子沈浩和刘星在郊外嬉戏中，耀军的儿子刘星意外身亡，此事彻底改变了两家人的命运。刘家夫妇远赴南方。多年后，容颜已老的他们再次相聚，隐藏的真相终将因为年轻一代人的坦荡而揭开。岁月流逝，生命滚滚向前…… 'We're waiting to grow old'. This sentence briefly sums up Yaoyun and his wife Liyun's bitter realization about their lives. They were once a happy family - until their son drowned playing by a reservoir. And so Yaojun and Liyun leave their home and plunge into the big city, although nobody knows them there and they cannot even understand the local dialect. Their adopted son Liu Xing does not offer them the comfort they had hoped for either. Defiantly rejecting his 'foreign' parents, he one day disappears altogether. The married couple are repeatedly enmeshed in their memories. Finally, they decide to return to the site of their lost hopes. In this family saga spanning three decades of Chinese history, the private and the political merge and the individual gets caught up in the gears of a society in the throes of constant change. Part melodrama, part critique of the times, this film takes us from the country's upheaval in the 1980s following the Cultural Revolution to the prospering ...
浩浩的本心没有恶意，但是星星因此失去了性命。海燕遵循了自己的工作要求，但是丽云却因此失去了生育能力。心理上的痛苦却因为骨子里的善良无法宣泄，但是耀军和丽云也无法坦然的装作无事发生。整个电影的底色很苦，但是结局却向阳。但是其中有愧于心者功成名就，而且有后（男）的思想似乎根植在每个人心中，失去孩子的丽云的痛苦被掩藏，让人不适。
地久天长。地还久，天也长，人生却苦短，所以伤痛看起来好的慢，可能要十年，二十年甚至一辈子。用我平淡的人生里这三个小时去体会一把别人的人生，挺值。最最佩服耀军和丽云，不把自己承受的痛苦责怪到别人身上，也不自怨自艾，电影看到后面眼泪一直流一直流。王景春老师和咏梅老师演的真好。真好。
时代的洪流里，命运会把人们推向何处。
一锤一锤，悲伤入髓。好在新生命的到来，养子的迷途知返，照亮了他们生命
so long my son
不做作的铺垫了很长；后小半段不激烈的“爆发了”；我的心里不突兀的感同身受。王小帅真的很厉害👍
没太看进去
我怀疑时间的治愈力，我感动于善良永远有回响。
出轨线纯属多余，养子线也冗长，命运像一座山压在时代所有人身上，个体即尘埃。这种憋屈的无奈感贯穿了整个影片，看得人喘不过来气。
中国人的内敛下的感动
这不妥妥的的新生网剧质感，渲染氛围不是只能靠拖沓
浩浩其实就是故意杀人了 为啥要爱护好他 海燕也是杀人了 为啥要原谅她 这些痛才是天长地久
看着难受
还记得王源离家出走到渡船这个情节，王小帅导演拍摄过程中，只这个镜头就拍了三遍，每次都说太好了，再来一条。起初王源以为是自己表现的不够好，后来才知道，那短短的一个镜头里，背景里配合着真实的人间悲喜。第一次是附近有人家嫁娶，第二次是有人出殡，第三次是正好有辆大货车呼啸而过。最终导演选择了第二条，但这个小插曲真真实实让我感觉到文艺创作其实是在表达人生的。有温度的电影值得我们花三个小时去细细品味，每个主创人员都值得被尊敬。干净纯粹
时间总是慢慢流淌冲刷一切